answer to a young man's question: should I find a better paying job to pay off my bills? or keep this one I love?
What a concept: doing work that we get paid enough so we can retire our debts in addition to paying our regular bills! I dreamed of that until I was in my 40s, with only a few years of achieving it in my 30s. The balance of time and attention spent doing that career-type work while still being kingdom-focused is one of the biggest challenges I've encountered. The wife-and-kids factor intensifies this by an order of magnitude. In fact, you asking these questions is evidence that you've entered this new level of conflict that is the normal christian living-in-the-world not wanting to lose sight of our kingdom calling. Welcome to the battle! So now what? you're doing this as a child of God's. You bring this challenge before him, and it's been a topic you've asked others to pray for, too, I suspect, even as you have brought it to me. That's a good thing, and a critical component of what will become its successful resolution. The presentation/conside...